Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Friendswithbenefits?

A girl, who I thought was just a friend, recently told me that she had a crush on me for four years; even thought she had different boyfriends. She then texted me a nude photo with the caption "I would love to experiment...” Do I just have meaningless sex, or try to remain friends?

                                                                                                             -friendswithbenefits?

Dear Friendswithbenefits?,
              
                   That is a true dilemma. A friendship is something that is very hard to get back once it is lost. If you have feelings for this girl, and want to date her and see where it goes I say give it a shot. Meaningless sex is not the way to go. Feelings always get in the way, and in the end both of you will probably get hurt. I think that you should delete the photo and tell her that you want to be just friends. Tell her that friendship is more important, and that sex is something to be shared between two people who share strong feelings for each other.
           
                                                            -MerryMaddness
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  1. AnonymousDecember 1, 2011 at 5:20 AM

    My friend's boyfriend has cheated on her multiple times with another girl. She claims that she is not going to go back to him but they still talk on a daily basis. I don't want her to go back to him and get mistreated again because she deserves better than that, but I don't know how to convince her not to without sounding controlling. What should I do?

    -CaringnotControlling

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